about high-sensitivity…

High Sensitivity (sensory processing sensitivity/SPS) is a biological trait one is born with & is not a disorder or something one “gets rid of.” HSPs have many gifts, but can also experience higher levels of trauma, anxiety, people-pleasing & difficulty holding boundaries.

OVER 20% OF HUMANS ARE SENSORY DIVERGENT

(HSPs, ADHDers &/or AUTISTICS)

gifts of the highly-sensitive person

body awareness

HSPs have a high level of body awareness (interoception) which creates a great ability to track emotion, physiology & movement. This is of benefit in performing, movement, meditation & mindfulness techniques, etc.

high empathy

High Empathy crosses over into the senses (we are talking about something beyond emotion). Being highly empathic can create amazing levels of connection to other people & other beings. Boundaries can support the HSP to benefit more from this trait.

It can be useful to find a focus for the empathy. HSPs tend to long for purpose & meaning.

creativity

HSPs often enjoy creative pursuits for work or leisure, but can also move away from it due to outside opinions & pressures. HSPs also tend to love observing & participating in other's creative expressions.

intuition & observation

Sometimes the keen observing eye of an HSP can lead to them over-thinking or determining something that isn't true. Because HSPs are so very observant & intuitive, they can sometimes know something that someone else is not yet conscious of. It can be a game-changer for them to learn how to bring their felt sense or knowledge forward to others (& who is worth their time & energy!).

super-sensory experience

Being easily over-stimulated by lighting, smells, textures, etc. can be too much, however this trait creates incredible enjoyment via the senses. HSPs often explain that sensory experiences can bring them to tears of joy.

depth of processing

To be able to "process" deeply on a mental, emotional or somatic level can be an incredible asset in one's life & also help to determine a professional life path. HSPs tend to do well in therapy with a good fit therapist, because they enjoy the process of observing themselves & having themselves reflected back accurately.

common issues for the highly-sensitive…

  • You feel different, that you don’t “fit.”

  • Your Sensory Experience (Sound, Touch, Smell, Sight &/or Taste) is tuned to a 10 & it seems like most everyone else is at a 1.

  • You’ve tried to keep up with the push & hustle culture, but end up feeling drained & over-stimulated (tired & wired).

  • You too easily absorb other people’s emotional states & feel “hung over” from their emotional expression.

  • You are distressed by animal suffering beyond what others seem to feel, even when it’s in a movie (not “real”).

  • You notice changes, novelty & repetition that others do not… whether you want to or not (a car parked in the same parking spot on Wednesdays, objects moved, the hum of electricity, the smell of campfire smoke miles away, the scratch of a shirt tag, a changed cooking oil at your favorite restaurant, etc.).

  • People see you as “sensitive” & tend to rely on you emotionally. You may even attract people who have narcissistic traits. People-pleasing may be a familiar fall-back.

  • You have a long history of sleep issues, digestive challenges, sensitive skin & possibly have started to develop autoimmune symptoms or diagnosis.

things that overlap or get confused with high-sensitivity

  • Introversion/Extroversion is a personality dynamic on a continuum...meaning, people can be on either end or anywhere in-between. It is not static.

    There might be an assumption that HSPs are introverted, but tHSPs can land anywhere on the continuum. There is also a sub-category of HSPs who are distinctly Extroverts & Sensory Seekers.

    HSPs may need more alone or quiet time to calm the impact of sensory inputs, but that is different than being introverted.

  • Autism is a neurological, developmental-based diagnosis. It is often mis-diagnosed (undiagnosed) if big behavioral presentations or developmental delays are not obvious in childhood.

    Many Autistic individuals have sensory processing challenges & one can be an HSP & Autistic.

    Autism is much more than sensory issues, so careful assessment or diagnosis is recommended.

  • ADHD is a neurodevelopmental difference.

    ADHD is a recognized diagnostic category defined by challenges in modulating attention. When the “H” is present there will also be challenges in “hyper-activity” (example: sitting still for periods of time). Sometimes HSPs get mislabeled with ADHD because of how easily they can be over-stimulated in classrooms or group situations.

    Research indicates that ADHDers can also be HSPs, but the two have different & often opposite signatures in presentation, so it may actually make it harder to identify ADHD when a person is HS. No two people are alike...it may be complex to tease out.

  • RSD may occur for as much as 98% of ADHDers & may be one of the contributing factors to mis-diagnosis of ADHD. The DSM diagnosis does not address ANY EMOTIONAL factors. RSD is ALL about emotion. To be clear, RSD is not an official diagnostic category & is not named in the DSM.

    What is RSD & why might it get confused with high-sensitivity?

    RSD “is extreme emotional sensitivity and pain triggered by the perception that a person has been rejected or criticized by important people in their life. It may also be triggered by a sense of falling short—failing to meet their own high standards or others’ expectations.” (from additudemag.com).

    RSD is often confused with MANY things….everything from mood disorders, personality disorders, to Autism.

    Being an HSP & an ADHDer would likely increase impacts of RSD, creating high levels of rage &/or shame.

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    Listen to a great Podcast about RSD

  • AuDHD is Autism & ADHD. It can sometimes be confusing to recognize because Autistic traits can be “cancelled out” by ADHD traits or vice versa.

    One can be AuDHD & Highly-Sensitive…further complicating figuring out neurotype.

  • Variable Attention Stimulus Trait describes all people with ‘ADHD’ traits even if not meeting the full criteria for an ADHD diagnosis.

    There is a movement to adopt the term VAST over the term ADHD because the name itself “attention deficit” is inaccurate to describe what is happening for all who experience attentional issues.

  • SPD is a distinct diagnosis that HSPs can have, but is not the same as the trait of high-sensitivity. There are several categories within SPD that may include balance/coordination issues, Sensory Modulation & Sensory Discrimination. SPD also can be an indication of the presence of ADHD, Autism & other developmental disabilities. Treatment often falls into the field of Occupational Therapists & other sensory integration specialist, especially in childhood.

  • Misophonia is not a recognized diagnosis at this time. It is defined by strong, emotional responses to specific sound triggers (example: the sound of others chewing) & can trigger panic attacks & limit an individuals socializing among other things.

    Misophonia & high-sensitivity can both be present.

  • HSPs (like others) can develop OCD, which is an anxiety-based diagnosis. Some HSP sensory overwhelm can present similarly to OCD, but does not meet diagnostic criteria. Usually what looks like OCD is the result of sensory overload & decreases or ceases when sensory overwhelm is absent.

  • Synesthesia is when your brain routes sensory information through multiple unrelated senses, causing you to experience more than one sense simultaneously.

    For example, certain musical notes/tones are experienced as specific colors to the person.

  • All HSPs have high empathy (picking up other people's emotions, body sensations & sometimes thoughts), but not all who have high empathy are HSPs. This is because high empathy does not always come with high sensory experience, a rich internal life, attention to detail, etc.

    2 kinds of Empathy to consider:

    Emotional empathy:  feeling same emotion, feeling distress in response to another’s plight, feeling compassion for another…

    Cognitive empathy:  perceiving & understanding another’s emotions…

  • HSPs (like others) can develop & meet diagnostic criteria for Anxiety, Depression, Trauma & PTSD. The main difference is that HSPs may be more vulnerable to mental health issues & ESPECIALLY if their childhood was not one of increasing confidence, boundaries & emotional intelligence. HSPs are more negatively impacted by a negative environment. For example, not being emotionally supported by caregivers can cut deeper & manifest emotional issues that non-HSPs would not relate to. Something very subtle causes a strong ripple effect, because HSPs track things on a deeper level & young children, because of their brain development always think it’s about them.

    HOWEVER, Sensory Burnout can be misinterpreted as Depression.

    That said, care must be taken when considering pharmaceutical interventions as well as the social norm of taking meds without addressing lifestyle (business, overstimulation, lack of sleep, etc.).

  • C-PTSD stands for Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. C-PTSD is not a DSM diagnosis, but has been widely adopted by the trauma community.

    C-PTSD can complicate identifying many diagnoses & neuro-developmental differences. Also, individuals with sensory challenges are more prone to develop trauma (even if the events don't "seem that serious compared to others").

  • PCOS is a reproductive/endocrine syndrome, but research is beginning to uncover links with neurodivergent categories such as Autism.

    PCOS gets mis-diagnosed often & sensory issues are not always recognized as a possible indicator.

    Podcast on the topic

I LOVE TO HELP HIGHLY-SENSITIVE PEOPLE, EMPATHS & INTROVERTS CREATE A LIFE THEY LOVE.

It’s important to get serious about your NO & embrace your YES!